“I hear the Japanese are very polite. Is it true?”

I can’t tell you how many times people have asked me this, especially on trips home to the United States. Many Americans imagine a country full of people saying, “Excuse me,” “Thank you” and “Please” every other sentence. But of course, that’s not true; the Japanese use these phrases in every sentence. At least once.

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