Married with two children, 46-year-old Kumiko Mashima thinks her life is just about perfect. She met her loving husband through an omiai — a formal introduction arranged by a go-between with a view to marriage — and they both adore their daughters. But before she found her way into her husband’s arms, she went through more than 30 omiai, meeting man after man in search of a soul mate.

Mashima was only 22 when she had her first omiai. She was still a university student and had no intention of being tied down. Unfortunately, though, her parents didn’t see it that way, and fretted over the possibility that their daughter would remain unmarried.

In a time of both misinformation and too much information, quality journalism is more crucial than ever.
By subscribing, you can help us get the story right.