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Biased pamphlet bodes ill for left-behind foreign parents outside Japan

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After years of pressure from foreign governments and enormous efforts by “left-behind” parents to have access to children abducted to and from Japan after marital separation or divorce, the Japanese government became a party to the Hague Convention on the Civil Aspects of International Child Abduction in April.

That is, of course, good news. Now the issue becomes one of enforcement. And to that end, this column has serious doubts that the Japanese government will honor this treaty in good faith.

These doubts are based on precedent. After all, Japan famously ignores human-rights treaties. For example, nearly 20 years after ratifying the U.N. Convention on Racial Discrimination, and nearly 30 since acceding to the U.N. Convention on Discrimination against Women, Japan still has no law against racial discrimination, nor a statute guaranteeing workplace gender equality backed by enforceable criminal penalties.

We have also seen Japan caveat its way out of enforcing the Hague before signing. For example, as noted in previous JT articles (e.g., “Solving parental child abduction problem no piece of cake” by Colin P.A. Jones, March 1, 2011), the debate on custody has been muddied with ungrounded fears that returned children would, for example, face domestic violence (DV) from the foreign parent. DV in Japan is being redefined to include nontactile acts such as “yelling,” “angry looks” and “silent stares” (particularly from men).

It is within this context that the Ministry of Foreign Affairs (MOFA) recently issued a pamphlet titled “What is the Hague Convention?” Available in Japanese and English, it offers a 12-page manga in which a Japanese father carefully explains the Hague Convention to his Japanese-French son.

The pamphlet has sparked considerable controversy. After I blogged about it last month on Debito.org, many annoyed left-behind parents overseas said they would forward it to their national elected representatives. After a South China Morning Post article cited blog commenters calling it racist, Huffington Post Japan and Al Jazeera picked up the story, engendering predictable relativism about differing cultural interpretations.

For the record, I never wrote that the MOFA pamphlet was “racist.” That term, if not used carefully, tends to dull analysis, especially since the pamphlet is more subtle than that. In fact, it provides valuable insights into MOFA’s slanted mind-set towards the child abduction issue.

First, consider the visuals. In three cartoons (on the cover, and pages 4 and 10) we see a foreign-looking man (never a woman) being physically violent towards his child, with two of those showing the child longing to return to Japan and be with mother.

Reinforcing that in five more places (cover, pages 1, 7, and 9 (twice) — see C and D) are illustrations where the child expresses dismay at being abducted from Japan; only once (page 4) is there dismay at being abducted overseas. On the other hand, pages 2 and 7 show children displaying no dismay at being abducted to Japan, or instead showing shock (pages 2 (twice) and 3 — see E) at not being allowed to return to Japan. The clear inference: Japan is, on balance, the natural place for the child, regardless of factors such as primary language or time spent living abroad.

This implicit fear of the outside world is reinforced by images of uneasy children facing unfamiliar rules, customs and languages (pages 1, 4 and 5 (twice)). More subtle is the picture on the cover and page 1, where foreign (adults) surround, frown and stare at the nervous Japanese child as though she really doesn’t belong. (She’s sent back to her Japanese mother’s loving arms by the next panel — phew.) Only once (page 3) is there a happy child sent back to his foreign dad.

Then consider the manga storyline. The Japanese father protagonist experiences a child abduction when the French mother abducts their son to France. Fortunately, according to the pamphlet, because Japan signed the Hague, Japan’s authorities can have French authorities track down the child, get mediation and (as the conflict resolution of this story) return the son (and the mother) to live happily ever after in Japan (page 6).

That is the central and tacit argument of the MOFA pamphlet: Japan signing the Hague isn’t about returning children to their habitual residence (whether it be Japan or overseas); it is about giving Japan greater leverage overseas to bring its children home to Japan. Where they belong.

Moreover, for some mysterious reason we spend the first page developing the relationship between the Japanese father and son protagonists, with father comically put off-balance by a barrage of questions from son, then negotiating with him to finish his dinner before answering. By page 3, the pamphlet mysteriously succumbs to another case of the cutes, as an anime figurine appears to praise the son’s intelligence (revealing father as an anime fetishist).

Why these irrelevant curlicues? Because by page 6, we learn why the French mother abducted the son: She accuses father of spending all his time watching anime and not paying attention to them. This is of course made dubious after all the space spent portraying the father’s caring, explaining, hugging, even cooking for his son. So clearly she’s just being hysterical. Of course, she returns to Japan with them after negotiations, so nothing fatal to the relationship.

On the other hand, when it’s a Japanese woman abducting, her reasons are more serious than hubby’s anime fetish. She has to deal with domestic violence, poverty (cover), unsympathetic or unpredictable foreign courts (pages 2, 3, 4, and 5), and even the unlikely scenario of begging frowning foreign strangers on the street to help her missing child overseas (page 2). Conclusion: The Japanese side is generally being victimized, while the foreign side is subtly depicted as violent and overreacting.

This is where MOFA is most disingenuous: In no fewer than four places (pages 1, 2 (twice) and 5) are unsympathetic courts, “cultural differences,” “legal procedures” and “language barriers” cited as hurdles for the Japanese spouse overseas.

Japan’s unsympathetic courts, legal procedures and cultural presumptions allowing child abductions to happen here on a regular basis — even between Japanese couples — are never mentioned. Japan, remember, has no joint custody or guaranteed child visitations.

In fact, taking the issue to a court overseas may afford both parents more rights — as it did in the Savoie case, where, despite the pamphlet’s claims, a Tennessee court gave Noriko Savoie permission to leave the U.S. for Japan (whereupon she abducted Christopher Savoie’s children). This is where the pamphlet morphs from guide to screed.

No doubt some MOFA representatives will be reading this critique, so let me point out two more inaccuracies unbecoming of a government agency attempting an impartial review of the issue.

First, almost all of the international marriages in the pamphlet are portrayed as between (katakana-speaking, in the Japanese version) white men and Japanese women. In fact, most international marriages in Japan are between Japanese men and Asian women. That is where the pamphlet is an easy target for accusations of racism. Not all “foreignness,” especially in this case, is so visually identifiable.

Then there’s the biased terminology. It is inaccurate in the English version to frame child abductions as “children’s removal” — after all, this is not the Hague Convention on Child Removals. Just as inaccurate as the term it was translated from, tsuresari (literally, “accompanying and disappearing”), meant to semantically soften the act of kidnapping — especially when another appropriate word, rachi, is used for abductions of Japanese by North Koreans.

On the plus side, there have already been good outcomes from Japan’s joining the Hague. Left-behind parents including Christopher Savoie and U.S. Navy Capt. Paul Toland (who have successfully pushed for the Goldman Act, as well as several U.S. congressional resolutions decrying Japan’s status as a haven for child abductions) have recently had their Hague applications accepted by the Japanese government, which has promised to locate and provide access to the Americans’ children in Japan. In effect, this is official acknowledgment that their children were in fact abducted from their lawful custody. Two abducted children have also been returned to their habitual residences in Japan.

Very good. But will all this eventually result in Japan actually returning a child to a parent overseas — something which, according to activists, has never happened as a result of Japanese government or court action?

Let’s wait and see, of course. But at this juncture, I doubt Japan will enforce the Hague with much verve. Doing so, as Colin P.A. Jones has pointed out on these pages, would in fact give more rights to those in international marriages than it would domestic couples! If the Japanese government’s past behavior towards inconvenient international treaties is any guide, it will find caveats to ensure international divorce does not become another way for Japan’s depopulation to accelerate.

Thus, MOFA’s pamphlet is little more than subtle propagandizing meant to reassure the Japanese public that they haven’t lost the power to abduct by signing the Hague. In fact, MOFA is portraying the Hague as a means to bring more Japanese children back home. With that mind-set as strong as ever, I anticipate that foreign parents will continue to get a raw deal from the Japanese system.

Debito Arudou recommends that officials at MOFA and everyone else understand this issue better by watching “From The Shadows,” a documentary available at www.fromtheshadowsmovie.com. Twitter @arudoudebito. Just Be Cause usually appears in print on the first Thursday of the month. Your comments and story ideas: community@japantimes.co.jp

  • Ron NJ

    Anyone who expected anything out of the Japanese government other than the typical hand-waving, loopholes, and playing the victim card on this is just deluding themselves, honestly. As said in this article here (quoting Colin P A Jones), the entire situation is suspect given the ridiculous wording used by the Japanese government.

    I can’t help but hope that I’m wrong and that the convention will actually be enforced by the Japanese government to return children to their habitual countries of residence abroad, but the realist in me knows that, at this stage at least, that’s just a pipe dream.

    • meneldal

      I agree that the pamphlet doesn’t make it sound promising for foreigners trying to get their children back.
      I think what we have to worry about is the domestic violence thing since anything can count as domestic violence for Japan. I’m expecting most people who apply to get their kids back will run into domestic violence accusations. The pamphlet shows that only bad “gaijin” can do domestic violence after all.

      It’s such a convenient way of not honoring Japanese side of the agreement here.

  • Gordon Graham

    Imagine having a “caveat” to protect a child against abuse!

  • Gordon Graham

    If a Tennessee court gave Noriko Savoie permission to go home with her children then why has she been charged with kidnapping? The Hague Convention itself says that children should be returned to their native country. From what I’ve read the Savoie children were born and raised in Japan and spent all but the year it took for their father to dump their mother for his lover and secure favorable a settlement in a Tennessee court. There should be a “caveat” against scheming fathers who gamble their kids for their lovers.

    • Paul Toland

      Gordon, You need to get your facts straight. Dr. Savoie is the sole legal custodian of both his children in Japan and the US. Noriko Savioe is wanted by both the FBI and Interpol. Additionally, Dr. Savoie was awarded a $6 million legal judgment for the suffering caused by the abductor. You are defending the indefensible. Zero children have been returned by either the Japanese Government or Japanese Court System to any other nation in the world. Additionally, zero parents have been awarded access to their children under Article 21 of The Hague Convention. The Japanese Government will simply be unable to comply with The Hague without fundamental reforms to their family law system.

      • Gordon Graham

        The sole legal guardian according to whom? I seem to remember Mr.Savoie being apprehended for trying to take his kids back to America from Japan. As you seem to know the case pretty well, could you please clear up where the children were born and raised? I believe that is a main criterion (of the Hague Convention) concerning which country and with whom the children should reside. Too bad Japan hadn’t signed sooner…Ms.Savoie could have saved herself a lot of trouble.

      • Paul Toland

        Mr. Graham (or should I say Mr. Internet Troll). Dr. Savoie is the sole legal CUSTODIAN (you used the term “guardian”, which is incorrect) according to BOTH US and Japanese courts. The very fact that Japan accepted his Article 21 access application under The Hague Convention on the Civil Aspects of International Child ABDUCTION is an affirmation by the Japanese Government that his children were abducted. You are not willing to understand the issue of Japan Child Abduction, so any further conversation with you is a waste of time.

      • Gordon Graham

        No sir, not according to Japanese courts. According to the Japanese courts Mr. and Ms.Noriko Savoie are still married and are BOTH legal custodians. Ms.Savoie, under the criterion of the Hague Convention had every right to take her kids to the home of their “habitual residence”…and not have to be forced to leave her kids stuck in Tennessee with a philandering father who gambled them away for a lover.

      • 6810

        Yes, I’m particularly interested in your answer to this question previously asked and left unanswered:

        “As you seem to know the case pretty well, could you please clear up where the children were born and raised? “

      • Paul Toland

        Isaac Savoie was born in California. Rebecca Savoie was born in Japan. The Habitual Residence of both children under The Hague Convention is Tennessee. Those are he plain and simple facts.

      • Gordon Graham

        How long were the kids in America before their mother took them back to Japan? How long had the kids lived in Japan before coming to America? How long was it before Mr.Savoie served his wife divorce papers upon arriving in America? How long had Mr.Savoie been seeing his girlfriend at the time…I read that it was just before he hustled his family off to America. Is that true?

      • Paul Toland

        Hmmmm. So I answered your questions and you come back with more questions. Sounds like you want to relitigate a case that has already been fully litiaged in a competent court. The court was privy to all the facts and had all questions answered, so let me ask you some questions, knowing that a competent court with all the facts ruled on this…1) why was Dr. Savoie awarded sole custody of both his children in Tennessee? 2) why did Japan acknowledge the legitimacy of the Tennessee decision? 3) Why did the Japanese Government accept Dr. Savoie’s Article 21 Access petition under The Hague Convention, thereby acknowledging the abduction and recognizing Tennessee as the Habitual Residence of the children? 4) Why have no children been returned from Japan to any country through the action of either the Japanese Government or the Japanese Court System? 5) why have zero parents yet been granted access to their children in Japan under Article 21 of The Hague Convention?

      • Gordon Graham

        Have Mr.Savoie’s children been returned to the US?

      • Toolonggone

        No. They have been with their mother since they all left the US in 2009. I don’t think it will happen without the intervention of mediation from the external party(e.g., MOFA, DOS, US Embassy). It’s just too risky to do that voluntarily, since Noriko is in wanted list for both the FBI and the Interpol.

      • Gordon Graham

        Well, I guess the Japanese government doesn’t recognize America as the “Habitual Residence” as was claimed by Mr.Toland, nor Ms.Savoie as anything but a mother taking her kids home. What a Tennessee court rules appears irrelevant in this case. What appears most relevant is whose court the ball is in.

      • Lord_of_the_Harvest

        Allow me to answer your questions Paul:
        1) because his petition for custody was not challenged.
        2) because Japanese courts have not.
        3) accepted? I can send anything I want to the government, that doesn’t mean they “accept” it, I’m sure it’s filed away in a large circular file.
        4) because the Japanese family court system badly needs reforming (I agree with you).
        5) because Japan was not party to the Hague convention and Article 21 had no legal standing in Japan or the Japanese court system.

      • Gordon Graham

        What exactly is the criteria for “Habitual Residence” according to the Hague Convention?

      • Lord_of_the_Harvest

        You carefully sidestepped the bigger question of where they were raised. I’ll help clear things up for you 6810. When the children moved with Noriko to Tennessee at the request of Chris to try to reconcile their marriage/family situation (only for Noriko to discover that Chris was already engaged to another woman and had convinced them to move to gain a more favorable venue for the divorce) one had lived her whole life in Japan and the other had lived there since his parents moved from the US to Japan.

      • Paul Toland

        Let me get this straight…the US government considers Tennessee their habitual residence, the FBI and Interpol consider Tennessee their habitual residence, and the Japanese government, who have accepted Dr. Savoie’s article 21 Hague application, now considers Tennessee as their habitual residence, but ….,, stop the presses…because the internet troll known as Lord of the Harvest says differently…..well then…we must all believe him. Praise to The Lord! Lord of the Harvest has spoken! Hallowed be thy corn.

      • Gordon Graham

        It appears that the Japanese government does NOT in fact recognize Tennessee as the habitual residence in this case. It appears the children reside in Japan where they grew up and lived up until the moment Mr.Savoie hustled them off to Tennessee for a quick divorce and settlement so he could begin his new life with his lover. He gambled his family and lost.

      • Lord_of_the_Harvest

        Pardon Paul, where did I mention “habitual residence”? The question was about where the children were raised not their “habitual residence”. You sidestepped the question and then attempted to misdirect. The question was where were the children raised.

        And do not mock He Who Walks Behind the Rows.

      • Lord_of_the_Harvest

        Paul, who’s koseki are the children on? I’ll give you a hint, it’s not Chris’s. So by Japanese law he does NOT have sole legal custodianship of the children.

      • Lord_of_the_Harvest

        Gordon, please get your facts correct. Savoie was apprehended for assaulting his wife when he tried to take his children back to the USA, not for trying to take his children back to the USA.

      • Lord_of_the_Harvest

        What does Savoie’s current status as “legal custodian” have to do with anything? It does not show right or wrong or the status of the case? Was it properly filed in Japanese court? Was the original divorce decree properly filed in Japan (which it would need to be since we’re talking about 4 Japanese nationals after all)? I think you’re confusing courts and justice.

        As for the court case and award – it’s enforceable in exactly 1 country (the US). There’s a reason the rest of the world’s courts don’t enforce US court judgments for punitive damages.

        As for zero children being returned under Article 21 of the Hague convention – that’s because Japan wasn’t party to that convention now isn’t it? Never mind that even with Japan becoming party to that convention Savoie is SoL because it’s not retroactive.

    • Toolonggone

      The Tennessee state court gave her permission to travel outside the US temporarily for summer. It is not a full grant. She agreed to the court order on condition that she would to return to the country by the beginning of school semester in fall. She didn’t. That’s why they charged her for violation of court order and child abduction.

      • Gordon Graham

        I see…She needed permission to travel with her own kids back to their native country where they were born and raised. How magnanimous!

      • meneldal

        There was a trial in the US and the father was awarded full custody. Because he didn’t want to be separated from his children he decided to move to US so he could get a fair divorce (divorce in Japan will usually rule on the side of the Japanese party and naturalized Japanese doesn’t mean you get equal rights).
        She didn’t respect the agreement so she’s wrong. You can argue that the judgment wasn’t fair for her or something but she did promise to the court she wouldn’t abduct her children and she did.

      • Gordon Graham

        This guy dumped his kid’s mother immediately upon arrival to the States then shacked up with his lover and (wisely) gambled that the courts would grant joint custody of the kids, meaning Ms.Noriko Savoie would have to stay in Tennessee to see her kids on weekends while hubby played bubbys and tittys with his new fling…I don’t blame her for taking HER kids HOME.

      • saitamarama

        As I remember, part of the deal was that she was legally obligated to stay in the US, where her husband was remarried to someone and otherwise had no connection the area.

        He was arrested under Japanese law for grabbing his kids and rushing to the embassy. He also had dual Japanese and American citizen (against Japanese law).

        Honestly, I am not sympathetic to EITHER party as examples of stellar parents, but Savoie has clearly been very manipulative and hasn’t really acted in much good faith from this outsider perspective. I do want to hear Toland’s details of the case.

      • Toolonggone

        I agree. I personally don’t think Chris is a typical child-beating gaijin dad described in the pamphlet, but he certainly is very calculative for quick marriage and re-settlement. Also, I have to say Noriko was just naïve to make her choice without thinking carefully about its trade-offs: how moving to the US would affect her life and her kids–especially in the situation of divorce settlement. What I miss in the context is parental relationship between the two. Does Japanese family law hampers her choice to let her ex-husband meet with kids in Japan as visitation rights? I mean, she can file a petition to the Japanese court to seek the extension of visitation rights or more, if she wants to.

      • saitamarama

        Here’s what little I know about the two Western-Japanese marriages I know of:

        1) American father. One Half-Japanese Son. Wife allows son to see the father for unknown lengths of time. Father clearly loves son and they enjoy a relationship that looks decent. Mother has been known to take sex work to pay bills.

        2) Canadian father. Two Half-Japanese sons. Wife left father for Japanese man with less stable career and deliberately left children in his car. Japanese parents cognizant of situation sympathetic. Canadian father is a a full-time dad to his kids. Father clearly loves sons and they enjoy a relationship that looks decent.

        Allow me to lay out that, generally speaking from my experience, I’m pretty “anti-dad,” as a whole.

        My own family is divorced and after seeing half-assed pseudo-parenting from my own dad, I will openly admit to being predisposed to distrust any father I see. That aside, I do think Noriko was naive and ultimately, in a perfectly world run by my rules, I think both should not have the privilege of raising children, I have a hard time scrounging up any shred of sympathy.

        By that extension, I don’t really like most dads, gaijin or not. That said, Japanese law is indeed pretty strict about what rights the custodian parent enjoys: I knew a single mother who gleefully showed pictures of the father and encouraged her child to say “Father is so disgusting!” (Both parents Japanese)

        But also, I know one who, despite a proven DV case in court, allows her child to visit the father for extended periods of time. Both parents Japanese.

      • meneldal

        I agree he can appear to be calculative but he just did what was in his best interest. She agreed to move to US probably because she wanted the money she would get in the divorce (while she would get nothing in Japan). She got a pretty big sum of money during the divorce in US.

        So while I can’t completely side with the father and say he’s a model, he wasn’t dishonest (she knew about his new wife before I think) and he honored his promises. She played him to get both the money and kids so in this case she’s the most dishonest.

      • Gordon Graham

        …based on supposition

      • Toolonggone

        There are still several things that are unclear to me. No one can get the whole picture unless you get the court record.
        The document covers the time after they moved to the US around Jan /Feb 2008 to April 2009 (the time the court hearing was held to decide whether to uplift restraining order or not). I really don’t know how their life looks like while they were still in Japan. Not sure how we can get it.

      • Lord_of_the_Harvest

        He was arrested for assaulting Noriko when he grabbed the kids. He and Noriko were still married under Japanese law at the time so he could not be arrested for trying to abduct his children.

      • Gordon Graham

        I argue that the judgement is meaningless because it took place in an American court and concerned itself with the rights of Japanese citizens and de facto ruled that Japanese citizens could not live in Japan. The Japanese government see it otherwise.

      • Toolonggone

        You obviously don’t know what you are talking about because you are still getting the whole picture about the Savoie case. Get a court document first, and then, take a close look at them. After that you talk. Thank you.

      • Gordon Graham

        Hey, Arudou cited the case. I have questions about it. I’ll express my opinion on what I’ve read up to this point. “Join the conversation” is what JT has invited me to do. If I’m wrong please point out exactly where.

      • Lord_of_the_Harvest

        So, the fact that Chris never paid the divorce settlement was right? So the fact Chris convinced Noriko to come to the US to try to reconcile their marriage only to hit her with divorce papers was right? So the fact Chris freaked out when Noriko, during a fight over money he wasn’t paying, threatened to take the kids back to Japan if he didn’t stop using the money to abuse/control her and filed a court order to stop her from being able to take the children back to Japan (as was part of the divorce agreement) and threatened to continue that course of action was right?

        This whole situation is a train wreck of epic proportions. Trying to paint one side as right or wrong is an exercise in futility.

    • Lord_of_the_Harvest

      Gordon, the Savoie case is screwed up enough without getting the facts wrong. Noriko was charged with kidnapping because she took the kids to Japan for the summer (as she was allowed by the court), returned with them, then took them to Japan again (permanently and in violation of the court order).

      • Gordon Graham

        The point being she should have been free to take her kids to Japan whenever she liked, without permission from an American court (she and both her kids are Japanese). She should also be free to live in Japan with her Japanese kids. The Tennessee court ruling infringes on her’s and her kid’s human rights.

  • The lack of provisions for specific protection against Domestic Violence (DV) is a known flaw in the Hague Convention, probably due to the age of the Convention (1980) — international understanding and awareness of domestic violence was not as strong decades ago and only started getting international state level attention in the early nineties. (UN 1993 DEVAW)

    Many courts around the world have struggled to fit a square peg into a round hole by attempting a torturous interpretation of the phrases “grave risk of harm” and “intolerable situation” in Article 13(b). Neither the text of the Hague nor its drafting history defines the two terms.

    In particular, the usual U.S. precedent case Friedrich v. Friedrich attempted to define Hague’s “grave risk” as being only two things: (1) returning the child to a place of war, famine, or disease, and (2) there is prior evidence of serious child abuse/neglect, or the child has developed extraordinary emotional dependence on the abducting parent, and the court in the country of the habitual residence may be incapable or unwilling to give the child adequate protection. It did not address DV.

    Japan is being very progressive and proper by insisting on the that spouses and children be protected from domestic violence. And no, Japan has not “redefined” the meaning of domestic violence; modern 21st century definitions include emotional, verbal, and economic abuse as forms of domestic violence. (CETS No. 210 2011)

    While women are not the only victims of abuse, there is much data to safely say that both globally and cross-culturally, the victim of domestic violence is disproportionately female.

    Belittling the need to amend Hague to protect people from domestic abuse or suggest that the real motive for the addition is not to protect victims (“caveat”) or that DV rates between men and women should be portrayed as more sex-symmetrical (“particularly from men”) sounds like an extremist fringe MRM (Men’s Rights Movement) position.

    Other countries would be wise to follow Japan’s lead and explicitly define and require additional protections and conditions for cases of domestic violence (the modern definition, not the fifties definition) with respect to the Hague Convention.

    • tony

      Oh dear….stil the paphlet is racist and Japan is a child abduction black hole. They don’t seem well equipped to lecture others on DV.

      A DV issue can be addressed in the habitual country of residence, without the need to flee to Japan and then claim DV when the left behind parent claim the child return through the Hague.

      It’s widely known the 80% of DV claims in family dispute are false. The Hague was not intended to dispute child custody, if one if the parent has a valid reason to take the child to his/her original country can make an application called Leave to remove.

      • 6810

        80%? Really? Perhaps I need some education. Mind informing me where you got that figure? Is it international? Japan only? The US?

      • A DV issue can be addressed in the habitual country of residence

        A victim is going to be more comfortable and have a greater chance for a true justice in a country with a legal system that speaks his/her language (without the use of a interpreter) and has access to the support of peers, friends, and family.

        An oppressor often uses the fact that the DV victim is a foreigner and has less ability to access resources — because it’s not their native land or laws — in order to take advantage of the foreign victim and reduce their chance of getting a fair trial / justice in his country.

        That works the other way too: I’m sure if an English speaking woman was a domestic violence victim to a man overseas in a foreign country, she might need the support, safety, and justice of her home country if she didn’t have the ability to communicate in her spouse’s country’s language well — despite the presence of an interpreter or (non-native) English speaking justice system.

        It’s widely known the 80% of DV claims in family dispute are false.

        Really? You’re going to cite MRM talking points in response to my comment? (Try doing a web search on the above phrase and see what comes up: both all the MRM cites that quote it and all the sites that debunk it)

      • tony

        dear Ueno

        perhaps I agree with you that internet is spread with literature from both side (feminist and father’s right).

        but justice is equal for everyone! so let me share my experience with you about resources available to both.

        I am Italian and my ex is Japanese and we both live in UK.

        my ex fled the marital home and went to a refuge for domestic abuse woman claiming all sort of allegations.

        from that moment my ex had access to legal aid which included: solicitor, barrister and interpreter (even though she is been living here since 2007). I, because I owned my house, didn’t have any access to legal aid and had to fork out in the region of £ 30,000, to the end I had to represent myself because I had no money left.

        At the end I manage to get the residence of my daughter because the allegation resulted false.

        The rhetoric of the victim is just a rhetoric that you are perpetrating because you have probably read somewhere on the internet .

        it’s impossible for anyone that has not been caught in family proceeding to understand what really goes on in a family court.

        So basically you are saying that a Japanese national has the right to abduct a child because she/he knows that in Japan only Japanese national will prevail and the left behind parent has no resource to defend himself in Japan.

        Your view doesn’t seem to be very child centered.

      • Steve Novosel

        “It’s widely known the 80% of DV claims in family dispute are false. ”

        Widely known – come on now. You can’t possibly be serious.

    • Max Erimo

      That is all very well and good and very high on the nose cosidering Japan has one of the worst records on domestic violence and child abuse.
      “What happens in the family stays in the family”. It is well known that Japanese police do very little or anything about either of these issues. If there is a report submitted and the visit the premises and are refused entry by let’s say the abusive partner, then that’s the end of things. Stalking is the same. Come and see us again after you’ve been injured or killed is the common response.
      Too little too late for these people.
      But I guess all foreigners are bad. NO Japanese would ever do such a thing.
      School girls killing classmates, school aged daughters killing parents and grandparents, elementary schoolboys killing younger children, poisoning curry to indescriminately kill people at a festival…..
      So glad I choose to live in such a safe country.

      • Gordon Graham

        There’re 130,000,000 people here. All kinds of horrible things will happen. Move to a “safer” place if you feel you are under threat.

      • Max Erimo

        You seem to be trolling or as you often say expressing your opinion, I will say how glad I am you replied to my comment. If you had read my comment in its entirety and understood you would have comprehended the word “choose”.
        I choose to live here. Thank you again for you time and interest. Accept my appreciation and turn your acid tongue elsewhere.

      • Gordon Graham

        If by trolling you mean offering an opinion that is counter to the person I’m responding to, then yes. Whether the Hague Convention should remove the “caveat” of DV as a criterion because DV is a problem in Japan, then no.

      • itoshima2012

        it’s more 120mn but for the rest, agree totally with you ;-)

  • That is what one author (as well as one web site that excerpted it) considers to be domestic violence. And even then, that simplified check list that’s an excerpt from a simplified 63 page booklet whose subtitle is “an introductory step to understanding domestic violence”.

    It is not necessarily what “Japan [or a court] considers [to be domestic violence]”. The real world does not work via self-help self-diagnosis checklists.

  • KietaZou

    What a dishonest, and intentional, distortion. “It looks like…” you have no intention of offering a real counter-argument. I doubt I even want to know why.

  • Jamie Bakeridge

    Debito – an excellent article. Yet again, evidence that you write so much better when you avoid your polemic style articles that read more like juvenile temper tantrums. More of this quality please.

    • Steve Novosel

      Jamie, I generally agree with you on precious little but on this, I agree completely.

  • Tim Johnston

    This story has raised awareness about what Left behind parents go through in Japan to try and get access to their suffering children. My friend in the States skyped me and told me he heard about this article and couldn’t believe that this kind of s-it! still happens in modern Japan.

    “The Land of the missing son”
    Tim

  • Toolonggone

    He has never said the cause of domestic violence has to be a physical one. That is not even in the discussion. It looks like someone here is refusing to make a clear counter-argument by failing to identify the point(s) the author makes in the article.

  • Gordon Graham

    I’ve already read Mr.Jones’ article…and other articles he’s had published on the Hague and Mr.and Ms.Savoie’s case.