The fact that the promotional poster for "Her" features the lone, male, mustachioed face of Joaquin Phoenix tells you most of what you need to know about this gentlyhorrific tale of the nearfuture. This is a world that very much resembles our own, but taken a little further, in terms of dealing with human-relationship issues. People still date, get married and share intimacy, but it's also possible to outsource much of everything that puts a strain on the nerves — includingmessy emotions such as genuine love or the crushing feeling of rejection.