| Dec 16, 2010

Kiribi

by Alice Gordenker

Dear Alice There is a shop in Ryogoku in Tokyo that sells a rock and a piece of metal as a souvenir set. I am wondering if this has something to do with an old Japanese custom I’ve heard about in which iron is ...

| Nov 18, 2010

Shrine tags

by Alice Gordenker

Dear Alice, There’s a shrine near where I live that has stickers splattered all over it. The effect is pretty wild and free-spirited, as if a bunch of ravers were let loose on it, and it seems totally out of character for what is ...

| Oct 21, 2010

Nature's air freshener

by Alice Gordenker

Dear Alice,The other day, while strolling in a park near my home, I overheard a group of middle-aged ladies. One of them said, “a, toire no nioi!” (“Oh, smells like a toilet!”) and everyone laughed. I was puzzled, since we were nowhere near the ...

| Sep 16, 2010

Laundry logic

by Alice Gordenker

Dear Alice, I’ve been married for three years to a Japanese woman who insists on doing laundry every day. When I asked her why, she said, “That’s how we do it in Japan.” I find this strange because Japanese people are generally very ecologically ...

| Jul 15, 2010

Ladies' plans

by Alice Gordenker

Dear Alice, What the heck are “lady’s” discounts? I’ve only been in Japan for six months, but I’ve already been served a “lady’s lunch” (free coffee and dessert); been to “ladies day” at the movies (almost half price); and went to Kyoto on a ...

| Jun 17, 2010

Vader ladies

by Alice Gordenker

Dear Alice, What the heck is with all the Darth Vader impersonators in Japan? You know who I mean: the middle-aged ladies who bike around with menacing-looking windshields attached to their heads. I steer clear because the shields completely obscure their faces and I ...

| Apr 15, 2010

Ear rakes

by Alice Gordenker

Dear Alice, Imagine my horror when I came home one evening to find my Japanese wife bent over our little son, about to thrust a sharpened stick into his ear! I shouted at her to stop, giving her the fright of her life. She ...

Scary crow

| Dec 17, 2009

Scary crow

by Alice Gordenker

Dear Alice, I live in rural Kyoto and am puzzled by what seems to be the local version of the scarecrow. They take plastic crows and hang them, usually upside down, on a string off a pole. I can’t figure out what the heck ...